Feeling crazy hot, beautiful and positively attractive is not something that is out reach. You don’t even need to buy, take or sell anything to make it happen.
You don’t have to have a bucket-full of dollars to enjoy feeling financially confident.
You don’t have to earn the right to be happy.
You do not need to fight to be afforded peace.
Prepare to be a little bit open minded with me. I’m about to get all hippy up in here.
If I’ve learned anything in the last few years is that the greatest distance between where you are NOW and where you want to be – is the space between your ears.
When we think about wanting to be crazy-hot, pretty or even just attractive – our mind immediately dashes into a dark corner thinking of the changes we need to make. “I’d need to exercise like a freak”, “I’d need bigger boobs/smaller bum/bigger bum/longer hair” and “I’d need to stop eating chocolate – oh hell, I’ll probably need to stop eating!”.
When we think about being rich, our poor little minds shriek again with thoughts of more hours at work, making more sales, getting a better job, doing more study, doing more, being more, making more, having more.
It’s not about forcing it.
What about if we retrained our brains to start thinking about our wealth and beauty in the same way it thinks about our happiness?
Because if I get you to close your eyes and think about becoming happier – being ‘more happy’, what do you see? I see my kids. And the Captain. And my dog. And us being together. Other than spending as much time with them as I can, there is no demanding thoughts of MORE. I can think about how I’d like to be happier with a smile on my face. Can you think about how to become richer or sexier with the same grin?
The difference is that when you think about happiness, your brain probably tracks first to what you ALREADY HAVE EXPERIENCED that makes you happy.
So think about how beautiful you are. Close your eyes and let your mind track first to the things you really like about yourself. Healthy shiny hair? Eyes the same colour as your amazing Nana’s eyes? Sexy quads or glutes that you can feel growing every session? Whatever these points are, embrace them as your beauty. Think of them first when you imagine yourself and how you look.
Think about your wealth. Think of all the things you have. A home to live in. Ability to access food to feed yourself and your family. Clothes on your back and shoes on your feet. Some additional resources to spend on the’extras’ in life. Want a reality check? If you earned AUD$20,000 or more in the last year – you are in the top 11% of the richest people in the world! The WHOLE world!
(To accurately check your own ranking, go play on the AMAZING website www.globalrichlist.com)
The key thoughts here are self-awareness and gratitude.
You are already beautiful, you just need to embrace and accept it.
You are already immensely richer than the vast majority of the world’s population and most likely already have a standard of living that most could never even dream of.
And if you close your eyes and think for just a second, you will already know what truly makes you happiest – you just need to make sure you always gravitate closely to it.
So to be hot, rich and incredibly happy – think first about the qualities that we already have. We can all grow and develop. Wanting more is not a bad thing. But the best launching points for stellar achievements are solid foundations and beliefs. You are already amazing.
It’s about knowing.
The truth is that the world, everything you long for, is waiting for you to realise your worth. Your right.
Freedom. Joy. Peace. Happiness.